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I am always recommending to people that they ought to journal. Keep a diary, write your memoirs, it doesn’t really preci

the hardest thing about dealing with being main character’d is managing your psychology, your emotional / physiological resp

A thing i’ve gotten very good at that I just helped a friend in DMs with is de-escalating other people, eg someone DMs y

The problem of imposter syndrome (under-estimating yourself) and Dunning-Krueger (over-estimating yourself) are both addressed

How to DM your heroes when they follow you 1. specific proof-of-work: “I’ve been a fan of your work and writing since the

A friend once said, regarding my Twitter, “I like how Visa says he’s going to do something, then immediately does

One of my new personal rules for myself is, if something annoys me, I’m going to funnel that into content that I can ref

A friend asked me for some advice on a massive writing project that he’s had on the backburner for a while now. It sound

I think the big secret of social life is that everybody loves to make a great introduction. If you can become someone that peo

(There’s quite a bit of preamble in this post before I get to the answer – just scroll down past the hot dogs if you&#

I’ve kind of developed a name for myself as “the friendly guy”. My book is titled FRIENDLY AMBITIOUS NERD. I

This blogpost started out as a bunch of notes and links, and I found myself sharing it with people over and over again so much