memoirs

2,000 copies of F.A.N sold!

2023 update: crossed 3,000 in June of this year! ✱ Today is October 16, 2021, and I just sold my 2000th copy of Friendly Amb

constructive ADHD

this is a placeholder blogpost that will be updated with all my ADHD content I’m a fan of the phrase “constructive

unlearning coercion

It took me a long time (maybe 10-15 years?) to properly realize that I was in an abusive relationship with myself, where my se

⏩ ages 17 to 29

Dear Visa-17, Visa-29 here. So I recently got on a Singapore Airlines plane (I know, finally!) and flew across the planet to S

πŸŽ“ I flunked out of the GEP

When I was 13, I flunked out of the gifted education program in my country. I was told that my failure was a disappointment to

πŸ“· my life in pictures

This post exists to help me, at a glance, get a sense of my own life over the years. 1990 – 1996 1998 2001 2003 2004 2006 20

🍳 Breakfast AMAs

Every so often I have breakfast alone, and I ask Twitter to ask me questions. I enjoy it a lot – I find it to be a great way

πŸŽ– NS taught me that people are incredibly different and every interaction can be special

Wrote this a few years ago. While I was still in NS. Around Dec 2011. I still remember when I went for my medical check-up a f

a sitemap of my memoirs

I have always been a somewhat scatter-brained person, and I’ve also always felt this sort of compulsion to catalog every

πŸ™πŸΎ an oral history of my relationship with religion

Thought I’d write about my thoughts about religion, and how my perspective on it has changed from my childhood to the presen

πŸ’ reflecting on 4 years of marriage [2016]

Fun fact: Sharan Kaur and I got married 4 years ago today. It was kind of a secret. We did it over milkshakes and hotdogs at a

πŸ‘¨πŸΎβ€πŸŽ“ my journey from underachieving student to moderately competent adult [2016]

An older friend told me that a parent wanted to talk to ‘learn about my educational journey’ and ‘understand

first day of work [2013]

2023 update: I eventually left my job in mid-2018, and I’ve been a feral free agent since then. I sell books (FAN, Intro