šŸ˜‚ learn to laugh at yourself

One of my private beliefs that doesnā€™t translate very well is that true comedy is sacred. And not sacred as in solemn, but sacred as in profound. & even fart jokes can have a profundity to them if you get it right. But strangely few comedians seem to get it. Maybe Iā€™m delusional?

I think it was Alan Watts who said that laughter and anxiety are both two sides of the same coin. The very serious job of the comedian, as I see it, is to transmute anxiety into laughter. Voltaire I think had a similar perspective.

(I visited my dad in hospital after he had a heart attack (heā€™s fine now) & he told us he couldnā€™t sleep bc one of the other guys kept farting all night. To be close to death & then be bombarded with fartsā€¦ we belly-laughed for 10m and itā€™s probably my happiest memory of him)

I think for comedy to truly serve its exalted purpose, comedians have to, however briefly, put aside their ego, their neediness, their contempt and tap into a deep love for humanity, a deep joy, a deep sense of hilarity at the absurdity of all things. Easy for me to say, of course.

Thereā€™s a lot to be angry about in the world. Thereā€™s a lot of cruelty and injustice, &comedy can be a tool for addressing that. But I do privately believe that even there, there is a love in that pursuit. A desire for connection, shared understanding. Comedy is a way of grieving.

One must imagine Sisyphus LOL-ing.

You were born crying, you should die laughing.

When you meet God, laugh.

A lot of the tedium of everyday life builds up anxiety & stress, from the burden of maintaining a costly illusion of sanity. The comedianā€™s job is to remind us that itā€™s all hilarious. And not in a contemptuous or cruel way – laughing at ourselves should be wholesome, nourishing.

So anyway, yā€™know. I get pretty bummed out when I see comedians get all tangled up in stupid non-discussions about people being offended and whatnot. Itā€™s like finding out that theyā€™re not really comedians, only pretending to be, only playing the part of it. I was rooting for you!

But I canā€™t be too mad about it because that would be me missing the plot too, you see what I mean?

Itā€™s a little lonely inhabiting this space because very people really get it all the way through. But the joke there is, “Thatā€™s my secret, Captain – Iā€™m always lonely.” šŸ˜‚

You canā€™t prescribe this as a method to anybody else, because it can be reductive and dismissive if itā€™s done without love. But for me privately, ā€œwhatā€™s the joke hereā€ gets me through almost everything. Laughter is not just medicine, it is a radical act in an anxious universe.

Itā€™s been a while since I read Taleb but one of my favourite bits from him is when he mentioned fantasizing about putting a mouse(?) down the shirts of stiff corporate suit types. In a way thatā€™s a great way to describe all of this. Put the mouse of joy down your own suit.

I just remembered that one of my favourite comics of all time uses a rodent as a cheeky way of breaking through solemnity. There is something profound here. Lots of people imprison their rat and in so doing imprison themselves.