people-shaped

This post is a quick sketch / copy-over of some tweets where I use the phrase “people-shaped”, which I think is something I want to revisit.

A while ago (4 years ago, wow) I wrote a post after I had a conversation with a friend who was struggling with having a large writing project in mind. I told him he ought to write essays. He asked how to scope them, and I said to talk to people. Talking to people challenges you to prioritize, and to figure out what’s most compelling about your ideas.

It now occurs to me that this is a specific instance of a more general solution to problems, which is to make your problems people-shaped. This applies at all scales. Readers are people-shaped. You, as a writer, are people-shaped.

Lots of people find people-shaped ideas more intuitive than abstract shapes. This explains both ancient mythology and children’s books.

whenever I try to put together some kind of “master resource” it almost always ends up being overwrought and tedious. when I write something like a personal recommendation doc for a friend, it almost always ends up being useful for other people and way easier to share too.

the phrase i’d use to try and explain this is “people-shaped”. People have people-shaped instincts, intuitions, preferences. Personal letters are people-shaped. Grand manifestos, typically less so.

“one of the best things about a scene of twitter friends is that people can use each other’s tweets as setups. we might write threads in replies to each other, or use someone’s tweet as a jumping off point. all of this helps make our writing people-shaped

you can do this on your own, and/or with strangers, I used to, but it’s a very weird thing to do. it gets way easier when you have the supportive context of even a couple other people who get what you’re doing

i’ve been helping dozens of people with their creative process over the past year, and if I had to summarize all of it into a single sentence, it’s something like “you and your work are not correctly positioned to receive the support it needs to flourish, lets fix that”