{"id":14191,"date":"2021-03-18T20:07:19","date_gmt":"2021-03-18T12:07:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/?p=14191"},"modified":"2023-08-31T01:55:45","modified_gmt":"2023-08-30T17:55:45","slug":"fuckability","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/fuckability\/","title":{"rendered":"fuckability"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>fucking is labor, fuckability is capital<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>many (most?) people wanna be fuckable more than they wanna fuck<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>having good sex is a lot of work, you have to be attentive, you have to communicate, you have to respond to feedback<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2731 <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>this post exists mainly to be a catcher for the popular tweet: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"550\" data-dnt=\"true\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">*taps mic*<br><br>people wanna be fuckable more than they wanna fuck<\/p>&mdash; Visakan Veerasamy (@visakanv) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/visakanv\/status\/1095744739410759680?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">February 13, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>is there anything interesting to be said about it? uh. stuff about status, I guess. not too concerned about it right now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>fucking is labor, fuckability is capital many (most?) people wanna be fuckable more than they wanna fuck having good sex is a lot of work, you have to be attentive, you have to communicate, you have to respond to feedback \u2731 this post exists mainly to be a catcher for the popular tweet: *taps mic* [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14191","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-unsorted"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.2 - 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