{"id":13312,"date":"2019-09-21T16:25:56","date_gmt":"2019-09-21T08:25:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/?page_id=13312"},"modified":"2019-09-25T03:21:00","modified_gmt":"2019-09-24T19:21:00","slug":"all","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/all\/","title":{"rendered":"sitemap of all posts"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wsp-container\"><h2 class=\"wsp-pages-title\">Pages<\/h2>\n<ul class=\"wsp-pages-list\">\n<li class=\"page_item page-item-13312 menu-item\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/all\/\" class=\"menu-link\">sitemap of all posts<\/a><\/li>\n<li class=\"page_item page-item-13080 menu-item\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/start-here\/\" class=\"menu-link\">start here<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2 class=\"wsp-posts-title\">Posts by category<\/h2>\n<ul class=\"wsp-posts-list\">\n\t<li><strong class=\"wsp-category-title\">Category: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/category\/memoirs\/\">memoirs<\/a><\/strong>\n<ul class=\"wsp-posts-list\">\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/fan2000\/\">2,000 copies of F.A.N sold!<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/constructive-adhd\/\">constructive ADHD<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/coercion\/\">unlearning coercion<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/sf-friends\/\">\ud83c\udf09 friends I met in SF<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/ages-17-to-29\/\">\u23e9 ages 17 to 29<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/pics\/\">\ud83d\udcf7 my life in pictures<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/breakfast-amas\/\">\ud83c\udf73 Breakfast AMAs<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/memoirs\/\">a sitemap of my memoirs<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/religion\/\">\ud83d\ude4f\ud83c\udffe an oral history of my relationship with religion<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul><\/li>\n\t<li><strong class=\"wsp-category-title\">Category: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/category\/reviews\/\">reviews<\/a><\/strong>\n<ul class=\"wsp-posts-list\">\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/influences\/\">influences<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/iterating-introspect\/\">iterating Introspect<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/friendly-ambitious-nerd\/\">friendly ambitious nerd<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/bestof-2010s\/\">\ud83d\udd25 bestof 2010\u20132019<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/mean-girls\/\">an analysis of power and social dynamics in &#8216;Mean\u00a0Girls&#8217;<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/bookmarks\/\">\ud83d\udd16 bookmarks that I often share with friends<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul><\/li>\n\t<li><strong class=\"wsp-category-title\">Category: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/category\/start\/\">starting points<\/a><\/strong>\n<ul class=\"wsp-posts-list\">\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/knowable\/\">things are knowable<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/heartsong\/\">do whatever makes your heart sing<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/desire-paths\/\">pave the desire paths<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/word-magic\/\">word magic<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/dominoes\/\">dominoes<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul><\/li>\n\t<li><strong class=\"wsp-category-title\">Category: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/category\/unsorted\/\">unsorted<\/a><\/strong>\n<ul class=\"wsp-posts-list\">\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/work\/\">work<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/cycles\/\">cycles<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/filters\/\">filters<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/describe\/\">describe<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/talks\/\">how I give talks<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/notesprawl\/\">notesprawl<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/look-it-up\/\">you can look it up<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/copes\/\">copes<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/do-less\/\">do less<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/rugpulls\/\">rugpulls<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/discourse-cycles\/\">discourse cycles<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/repeat\/\">again<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/sigh\/\">sigh<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/emotional-knottedness\/\">emotional knottedness<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/comfortable\/\">make yourself comfortable<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/journalling\/\">journalling<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/quotes\/\">quotes<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/my-creative-process\/\">my creative process<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/process\/\">What does it mean to &#8220;process&#8221; an experience?<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/intuition\/\">intuition<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/late\/\">why were you late?<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/attention-metrics\/\">attention metrics<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/world\/\">the world is big<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/deviants\/\">deviants<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/greatness-is-deviance\/\">greatness is deviance<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/math\/\">it&#8217;s just math<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/people-shaped\/\">people-shaped<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/when-women-are-people-doesnt-work\/\">when &#8220;women are people&#8221; doesn&#8217;t work<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/most-shared\/\">most shared<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/advice20s\/\">advice for people in their 20s<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/safety-rituals\/\">safety rituals<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/focus\/\">focus on what you want to see more of<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/joke\/\">joke about outcomes you want<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/psychofauna\/\">psychofauna<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/advanced-stupid\/\">Advanced Stupid<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/main-character\/\">so you&#8217;ve been main character&#8217;d<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/baby-steps\/\">take baby steps<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/losev\/\">the Losev problem<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/culture\/\">culture<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/deescalate\/\">how to de-escalate tense situations<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/self-worth\/\">self-worth<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/happiness\/\">happiness<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/erasmus\/\">Mint 100 Erasmuses<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/write-your-memoirs\/\">write your memoirs<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/imposter-syndrome\/\">the solution to your imposter syndrome is not inside your head<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/better-place\/\">&#8220;Shouldn&#8217;t I want to make the world a better place?&#8221;<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/civilization\/\">civilization is potty training<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/dream\/\">what&#8217;s it like to live your dream?<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/heroes\/\">how to DM your heroes<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/encourage\/\">encourage your friends to ship their ideas<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/ayy-lmao\/\">ayy lmao<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/status-quo-soldiers\/\">status quo soldiers lose in the long run<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/dinesh\/\">things I learned from my ex-boss Dinesh<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/comms-is-lossy\/\">comms is lossy<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/oblique\/\">oblique approaches can achieve what directness cannot<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/agi-fire-drill-day\/\">Aug29: AGI fire alarm drill day<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/scapple\/\">I use scapple to do my think-out-loud maps<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/seek-excellent-peers\/\">seek excellent peers<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/pericles\/\">Pericles<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/failure\/\">&#8220;i&#8217;m such a failure&#8221;<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/narrow-utilitarianism\/\">narrow utilitarianism<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/memed-into-existence\/\">memed into existence<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/information-architecture\/\">thinking is easy, information architecture is hard<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/exhaustion-funnels\/\">exhaustion funnels: why tired?<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/pissbabies\/\">\ud83d\udc76 a theory of pissbabies<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/feral-free-agents\/\">feral free agents<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/scenius\/\">the death and life of great scenius<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/remix\/\">\ud83c\udfa8 everything is a remix<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/coordination\/\">coordination does not require conspiracy<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/iconography\/\">\ud83d\uddfdiconography<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/scams\/\">don&#8217;t be gullible<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/aesthetics\/\">aesthetics<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/vision\/\">vision<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/small-talk\/\">small talk<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/todo-lists-as-narrative-devices\/\">todo lists as narrative devices<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/smartphones\/\">\ud83d\udcf1smartphones changed everything<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/systems-thinking\/\">systems thinking<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/problems\/\">problems are solvable: define, solicit, integrate<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/hyperthreading\/\">\ud83e\uddf5hyperthreading<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/jjj\/\">jinky, janky, junky<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/hostage\/\">hostage<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/losers\/\">dealing with losers<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/talking-points\/\">talking points<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/fumbling-the-bag\/\">fumbling the bag<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/wrong\/\">&#8220;Wrong.&#8221;<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/shame\/\">shame<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/persuasion\/\">persuasion<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/fuckability\/\">fuckability<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/arrogance\/\">troubleshooting arrogance<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/books\/\">books<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/monarch\/\">\ud83d\udc51  you are already the monarch of your life<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/courage\/\">\ud83e\udde0\u274c you can&#8217;t think your way out of a courage deficit<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/4-hours\/\">\u23f1 4 hours<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/long-games\/\">play long games<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/most-people\/\">Most People<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/do100things\/\">do 100 things<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/talent\/\">talent is not rare, talent is clueless and scared<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/music\/\">\ud83c\udfb8 let&#8217;s jam!<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/libraries\/\">\ud83d\udcda the library ethos<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/after-gifted\/\">after gifted<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/kids\/\">kids in shitty social graphs<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<li class=\"wsp-post\"><a 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