{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"@visakanv&#039;s blog","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog","author_name":"Visakan Veerasamy","author_url":"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/author\/visakanv\/","title":"\ud83d\udc83\ud83c\udffe flirting is about signalling interest with plausible deniability - @visakanv&#039;s blog","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"Uauwg21WF5\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/flirting\/\">\ud83d\udc83\ud83c\udffe flirting is about signalling interest with plausible deniability<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/flirting\/embed\/#?secret=Uauwg21WF5\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;\ud83d\udc83\ud83c\udffe flirting is about signalling interest with plausible deniability&#8221; &#8212; @visakanv&#039;s blog\" data-secret=\"Uauwg21WF5\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n<\/script>\n","description":"What I tell my nephews: flirting is basically this &#8211; give moderately strong signals of interest with plausible deniability (for you) and outs (for her), and then be attentive for returned signs of interest and riff off of that. If she plays with you, you can ask her out. It\u2019s not actually that complex, any [&hellip;]"}