Well, personally, I would just be straightforward with it. Like how Visa has been to me, and vice versa. It’s a good wake up call when you’re literal and in your face<\/p>\n
But you can’t approach it in the way that sounds self-righteous “You should be more like this, more like that” . If you want her to realize something, you can point out simply “do you notice that people tend to react this way around you when you do this?”<\/p>\n
and “I know you don’t really care, because you’re an individual and all, but if you had to pick between two outcomes; one having people who care about you, care about you more. Or having people who care about you eventually not give a fuck — which would you prefer?”<\/p>\n
“the choice is entirely up to you, but you, just like myself and everyone else on this god forsaken earth, have to live with the consequence of your actions”<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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