{"id":9717,"date":"2009-11-26T06:59:00","date_gmt":"2009-11-26T06:59:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/archives\/2009\/11\/26\/an-honest-question\/"},"modified":"2009-11-26T06:59:00","modified_gmt":"2009-11-26T06:59:00","slug":"an-honest-question","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/archives\/2009\/11\/26\/an-honest-question\/","title":{"rendered":"an honest question"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Which scenario is more undesirable to you?<\/p>\n<p>A: Having others betray your trust in them<br \/>\nB: Betraying the trust others have in you<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s define &#8220;others&#8221; as people in your life you care about, such as family or close friends.<\/p>\n<p>Let us also assume that any betrayal which happens was not planned or intended, but substantial enough to cause a reasonable degree of emotional trauma such that the deed wouldn&#8217;t be forgiven for at least a week or two, and probably never forgotten.<\/p>\n<p>(I have to emphasize that there is no actual betrayal going on! At least, as far as I know. I just want to know how you guys think.)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Which scenario is more undesirable to you? A: Having others betray your trust in them B: Betraying the trust others have in you Let&#8217;s define &#8220;others&#8221; as people in your life you care about, such as family or close friends. Let us also assume that any betrayal which happens was&hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9717","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p5gxNz-2wJ","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/archives\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9717","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/archives\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/archives\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/archives\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/archives\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9717"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/archives\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9717\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/archives\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9717"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/archives\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9717"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/archives\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9717"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}