Here’s a question:<\/p>\n
Let’s say there are two people in your life, like love interests. Who do you choose to try and pursue a relationship with?<\/p>\n
A) The person you admire, who inspires and excites you, who knows you exist but is rather distant from you, or<\/p>\n
B) The person who’s warm to you, treats you well, and cares about you?<\/p>\n
I’d like to hear your thoughts about this. B seems like the obvious, better choice to the rational mind, but the rational mind doesn’t stop A from always popping into your mind over and over again.<\/p>\n
If you take too long with B, you’ll end up really good, close friends. Which isn’t a bad thing either.<\/p>\n
So I’m thinking, chase A until you get a clear sign of interest or disinterest? Then at least if you pursue B, you do it with peace of mind and heart? And you want to avoid giving any wrong signals to B if you’re going to be fixated on A.<\/p>\n
What a world. And I got this sneaky, awkward feeling that both A and B read this.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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