{"id":4422,"date":"2012-02-18T11:10:18","date_gmt":"2012-02-18T03:10:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/?p=4422"},"modified":"2025-03-06T17:11:51","modified_gmt":"2025-03-06T17:11:51","slug":"habits-through-connections","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/archives\/2012\/02\/18\/habits-through-connections\/","title":{"rendered":"Habits Through Connections"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have been paying lip service to this for the longest time but it&#8217;s finally about time- better late then never- that I get around to doing it. I&#8217;m talking about consolidating my passions, focusing warm sunshine into the laser beam of a heat-seeking missile. And I&#8217;m talking about creating habits, because first we create our habits, and then they create us.<\/p>\n<p>So anyway, I&#8217;m writing this right after a pleasurable session of reading. (Specifically, I was reading More Sex is Safer Sex: The Unconventional Wisdom of Economics by Steven Landsburg, which is a great book that I&#8217;d recommend to absolutely everyone.) And I&#8217;m confirming a hypothesis here- which is that I always get around to writing a long quicker if I pursue it immediately after reading. Because reading crystallizes my thoughts, it puts me in a receptive mood for working with ideas. I won&#8217;t necessarily regurgitate whatever it is that I was reading- because I read in an engaging, critical manner (I&#8217;m not trying to praise myself here, this is just how I read) that gets me thinking and asking questions. I write much better when I&#8217;m in this zone, and for the most part I like to pretend that the zone is something mystical and serendipitous- but statistically speaking, getting into this zone is something that can be arranged.<\/p>\n<p>I cannot guarantee that you will fall in love this year, for instance- but I can guarantee you that it becomes statistically more likely if you make a habit of meeting and interacting with new people, and statistically less likely if you&#8217;re sitting at home every day. Similarly, I greatly boost the my odds of writing something palatable if I simply read more books, and write immediately after my reading sessions. It&#8217;s all about the mental state. And this is consistent with a conversation I was having with my friend Xavier about how it&#8217;s difficult to do more or less of anything, but it&#8217;s easier to rearrange our existing activities in a more effective system. Sometimes I sit and beg for the words to come. Moments like now, they come in torrents, and I struggle to put them all down. It&#8217;s a sobering thought. I can enter this state of mind if I make the necessary preparations. It&#8217;s not that difficult.<\/p>\n<p>So now that we&#8217;ve gotten the read book -&gt; blog idea out of the way, I think it&#8217;s worth thinking about what other little associations I could create that would make a significant difference.<\/p>\n<p>I want to be tracking my expenses every day. <em>(2024: this was important when I was broke, but it no longer seems particularly important in my current lifestyle.)<\/em> I spend more consciously when I have been tracking them, and I get a greater satisfaction out of my purchases that way. (It would not be accurate to say &#8220;I spend less when I have been tracking&#8221;, because even though it&#8217;s generally true, sometimes I do spend more despite tracking- because of things like the Foo Fighters and L&#8217;arc~en~ciel showing up in the same few months, and me paying for my web hosting and other things like that. Still, all else held constant, I spend less on stupid frivolous bullshit when I track my spending. I smoke less, I eat out less, I waste less time- all sorts of wonderful consequences. So I want to track my expenses every day. My notebook remains a great medium. All I need now is just an activity to link it to, to make it a habit. I think I shall make it a bed-time activity. I shall track my day before I go to bed.<\/p>\n<p>I need a wake-up routine and a bed-time routine. Bookend your day, says Art Of Manliness. More on this later. <em>(2024: I think it&#8217;s worth investigating why I&#8217;ve never quite managed to make a desirable routine stick?)<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have been paying lip service to this for the longest time but it&#8217;s finally about time- better late then never- that I get around to doing it. I&#8217;m talking about consolidating my passions, focusing warm sunshine into the laser beam of a heat-seeking missile. 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