{"id":2474,"date":"2011-05-13T21:32:55","date_gmt":"2011-05-13T13:32:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/blog\/?p=2474"},"modified":"2025-03-13T09:27:37","modified_gmt":"2025-03-13T09:27:37","slug":"describe-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.visakanv.com\/archives\/2011\/05\/13\/describe-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"Johari \/ Nohari Windows"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>These are my <em>negative<\/em> traits, as my friends perceive me:<\/strong><\/p>\n<table style=\"text-align: center; border-spacing: 0px; border-collapse: collapse;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"border: 1px solid #000; padding: 4px; width: 50%; vertical-align: top; background: #ccf;\">\n<h2 style=\"margin: 0px;\">Arena<\/h2>\n<div style=\"font-size: 0.7em;\">(known to self and others)<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000019;\">aloof<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #00007f;\">irresponsible<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #000066;\">lethargic<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #000099; font-weight: bold;\">insensitive<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #0000ff; font-weight: bold;\">smug<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #000066;\">inattentive<\/span><\/td>\n<td style=\"border: 1px solid #000; padding: 4px; width: 50%; vertical-align: top; background: #fcc;\">\n<h2 style=\"margin: 0px;\">Blind Spot<\/h2>\n<div style=\"font-size: 0.7em;\">(known only to others)<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #270000;\">incompetent<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #130000;\">intolerant<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #130000;\">inflexible<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #270000;\">cowardly<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #3a0000;\">glum<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #130000;\">stupid<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #270000;\">simple<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #3a0000;\">insecure<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #4e0000;\">vulgar<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #130000;\">withdrawn<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #3a0000;\">selfish<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #3a0000;\">cynical<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #130000;\">unimaginative<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #3a0000;\">brash<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #130000;\">cruel<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #4e0000;\">ignorant<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #130000;\">irrational<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #620000;\">distant<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #b00000; font-weight: bold;\">boastful<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #750000;\">blas\u00e9<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #3a0000;\">imperceptive<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #130000;\">chaotic<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #130000;\">weak<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #ff0000; font-weight: bold;\">loud<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #130000;\">unethical<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #eb0000; font-weight: bold;\">self-satisfied<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #3a0000;\">passive<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #130000;\">rash<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #130000;\">dispassionate<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #4e0000;\">overdramatic<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #620000;\">predictable<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #130000;\">callous<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #270000;\">unreliable<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #130000;\">foolish<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"border: 1px solid #000; padding: 4px; width: 50%; vertical-align: top; background: #cfc;\">\n<h2 style=\"margin: 0px;\">Fa\u00e7ade<\/h2>\n<div style=\"font-size: 0.7em;\">(known only to self)<\/div>\n<\/td>\n<td style=\"border: 1px solid #000; padding: 4px; width: 50%; background: #ccc;\">\n<h2 style=\"margin: 0px;\">Unknown<\/h2>\n<div style=\"font-size: 0.7em;\">(known to nobody)<\/div>\n<p style=\"font-size: 0.8em;\">timid, violent, hostile, unhappy, unhelpful, needy, inane, childish, impatient, embarrassed, vacuous, panicky, dull, cold, humourless<\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<h3>All Percentages<\/h3>\n<p><strong>incompetent<\/strong> (7%) <strong>intolerant<\/strong> (3%) <strong>inflexible<\/strong> (3%) <span style=\"color: #888;\">timid (0%)<\/span> <strong>cowardly<\/strong> (7%) <span style=\"color: #888;\">violent (0%)<\/span> <strong>aloof<\/strong> (3%) <strong>glum<\/strong> (11%) <strong>stupid<\/strong> (3%) <strong>simple<\/strong> (7%) <strong>insecure<\/strong> (11%) <strong>irresponsible<\/strong> (19%) <strong>vulgar<\/strong> (15%) <strong>lethargic<\/strong> (15%) <strong>withdrawn<\/strong> (3%) <span style=\"color: #888;\">hostile (0%)<\/span> <strong>selfish<\/strong> (11%) <span style=\"color: #888;\">unhappy (0%)<\/span> <span style=\"color: #888;\">unhelpful (0%)<\/span> <strong>cynical<\/strong> (11%) <span style=\"color: #888;\">needy (0%)<\/span> <strong>unimaginative<\/strong> (3%) <span style=\"color: #888;\">inane (0%)<\/span> <strong>brash<\/strong> (11%) <strong>cruel<\/strong> (3%) <strong>ignorant<\/strong> (15%) <strong>irrational<\/strong> (3%) <strong>distant<\/strong> (19%) <span style=\"color: #888;\">childish (0%)<\/span> <strong>boastful<\/strong> (34%) <strong>blas\u00e9<\/strong> (23%) <strong>imperceptive<\/strong> (11%) <strong>chaotic<\/strong> (3%) <span style=\"color: #888;\">impatient (0%)<\/span> <strong>weak<\/strong> (3%) <span style=\"color: #888;\">embarrassed (0%)<\/span> <strong>loud<\/strong> (50%) <span style=\"color: #888;\">vacuous (0%)<\/span> <span style=\"color: #888;\">panicky (0%)<\/span> <strong>unethical<\/strong> (3%) <strong>insensitive<\/strong> (23%) <strong>self-satisfied<\/strong> (46%) <strong>passive<\/strong> (11%) <strong>smug<\/strong> (38%) <strong>rash<\/strong> (3%) <strong>dispassionate<\/strong> (3%) <strong>overdramatic<\/strong> (15%) <span style=\"color: #888;\">dull (0%)<\/span> <strong>predictable<\/strong> (19%) <strong>callous<\/strong> (3%) <strong>inattentive<\/strong> (15%) <strong>unreliable<\/strong> (7%) <span style=\"color: #888;\">cold (0%)<\/span> <strong>foolish<\/strong> (3%) <span style=\"color: #888;\">humourless (0%)<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"border: 1px solid #000; padding: 8px; text-align: center; background: #eee;\">Created by the <a href=\"http:\/\/kevan.org\/nohari\"><strong>Nohari Window<\/strong><\/a> on 13.5.2011, using data from 26 respondents.<br \/>\nYou can <a href=\"http:\/\/kevan.org\/nohari\">make your own Nohari Window<\/a>, or <a href=\"http:\/\/kevan.org\/nohari?view=visakanv\">view visakanv&#8217;s full data<\/a>.<\/div>\n<p><strong>These are my <em>positive<\/em> traits, as my friends perceive me:<\/strong><\/p>\n<table style=\"text-align: center; border-spacing: 0px; border-collapse: collapse;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"border: 1px solid #000; padding: 4px; width: 50%; vertical-align: top; background: #ccf;\">\n<h2 style=\"margin: 0px;\">Arena<\/h2>\n<div style=\"font-size: 0.7em;\">(known to self and others)<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #00005c;\">adaptable<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #0000d0; font-weight: bold;\">friendly<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #000073;\">idealistic<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #0000ff; font-weight: bold;\">intelligent<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #0000ff; font-weight: bold;\">self-assertive<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #000045;\">self-conscious<\/span><\/td>\n<td style=\"border: 1px solid #000; padding: 4px; width: 50%; vertical-align: top; background: #fcc;\">\n<h2 style=\"margin: 0px;\">Blind Spot<\/h2>\n<div style=\"font-size: 0.7em;\">(known only to others)<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #260000;\">accepting<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #3f0000;\">bold<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #0c0000;\">calm<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #260000;\">cheerful<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #4c0000;\">clever<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #260000;\">complex<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #b20000; font-weight: bold;\">confident<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #0c0000;\">dependable<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #4c0000;\">energetic<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #ff0000; font-weight: bold;\">extroverted<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #190000;\">happy<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #0c0000;\">helpful<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #260000;\">independent<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #8c0000; font-weight: bold;\">knowledgeable<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #7f0000;\">logical<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #0c0000;\">loving<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #190000;\">mature<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #4c0000;\">observant<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #190000;\">proud<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #7f0000;\">reflective<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #330000;\">relaxed<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #0c0000;\">religious<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #0c0000;\">responsive<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #190000;\">searching<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #330000;\">sensible<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #190000;\">sentimental<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #0c0000;\">silly<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #4c0000;\">spontaneous<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #190000;\">warm<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #260000;\">wise<\/span>, <span style=\"color: #8c0000; font-weight: bold;\">witty<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"border: 1px solid #000; padding: 4px; width: 50%; vertical-align: top; background: #cfc;\">\n<h2 style=\"margin: 0px;\">Fa\u00e7ade<\/h2>\n<div style=\"font-size: 0.7em;\">(known only to self)<\/div>\n<\/td>\n<td style=\"border: 1px solid #000; padding: 4px; width: 50%; background: #ccc;\">\n<h2 style=\"margin: 0px;\">Unknown<\/h2>\n<div style=\"font-size: 0.7em;\">(known to nobody)<\/div>\n<p style=\"font-size: 0.8em;\">able, brave, caring, dignified, giving, ingenious, introverted, kind, modest, nervous, organised, patient, powerful, quiet, shy, sympathetic, tense, trustworthy<\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<h2>Dominant Traits<\/h2>\n<p><strong>57%<\/strong> of people think that visakanv is <strong>extroverted<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>All Percentages<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"color: #888;\">able (0%)<\/span> <strong>accepting<\/strong> (8%) <strong>adaptable<\/strong> (11%) <strong>bold<\/strong> (14%) <span style=\"color: #888;\">brave (0%)<\/span> <strong>calm<\/strong> (2%) <span style=\"color: #888;\">caring (0%)<\/span> <strong>cheerful<\/strong> (8%) <strong>clever<\/strong> (17%) <strong>complex<\/strong> (8%) <strong>confident<\/strong> (40%) <strong>dependable<\/strong> (2%) <span style=\"color: #888;\">dignified (0%)<\/span> <strong>energetic<\/strong> (17%) <strong>extroverted<\/strong> (57%) <strong>friendly<\/strong> (25%) <span style=\"color: #888;\">giving (0%)<\/span> <strong>happy<\/strong> (5%) <strong>helpful<\/strong> (2%) <strong>idealistic<\/strong> (14%) <strong>independent<\/strong> (8%) <span style=\"color: #888;\">ingenious (0%)<\/span> <strong>intelligent<\/strong> (31%) <span style=\"color: #888;\">introverted (0%)<\/span> <span style=\"color: #888;\">kind (0%)<\/span> <strong>knowledgeable<\/strong> (31%) <strong>logical<\/strong> (28%) <strong>loving<\/strong> (2%) <strong>mature<\/strong> (5%) <span style=\"color: #888;\">modest (0%)<\/span> <span style=\"color: #888;\">nervous (0%)<\/span> <strong>observant<\/strong> (17%) <span style=\"color: #888;\">organised (0%)<\/span> <span style=\"color: #888;\">patient (0%)<\/span> <span style=\"color: #888;\">powerful (0%)<\/span> <strong>proud<\/strong> (5%) <span style=\"color: #888;\">quiet (0%)<\/span> <strong>reflective<\/strong> (28%) <strong>relaxed<\/strong> (11%) <strong>religious<\/strong> (2%) <strong>responsive<\/strong> (2%) <strong>searching<\/strong> (5%) <strong>self-assertive<\/strong> (31%) <strong>self-conscious<\/strong> (8%) <strong>sensible<\/strong> (11%) <strong>sentimental<\/strong> (5%) <span style=\"color: #888;\">shy (0%)<\/span> <strong>silly<\/strong> (2%) <strong>spontaneous<\/strong> (17%) <span style=\"color: #888;\">sympathetic (0%)<\/span> <span style=\"color: #888;\">tense (0%)<\/span> <span style=\"color: #888;\">trustworthy (0%)<\/span> <strong>warm<\/strong> (5%) <strong>wise<\/strong> (8%) <strong>witty<\/strong> (31%)<\/p>\n<div style=\"border: 1px solid #000; padding: 8px; text-align: center; background: #eee;\">Created by the <a href=\"http:\/\/kevan.org\/johari\"><strong>Interactive Johari Window<\/strong><\/a> on 13.5.2011, using data from 35 respondents.<br \/>\nYou can <a href=\"http:\/\/kevan.org\/johari\">make your own Johari Window<\/a>, or <a href=\"http:\/\/kevan.org\/johari?view=visakanv\">view visakanv&#8217;s full data<\/a>.<\/div>\n<p>My goal then, at the end of this 90 week project, is that I should no longer be perceived as boastful, insensitive, smug, irresponsible, loud and self-satisfied. 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