Category Archives: Conversationalist

The Art Of Surrender

Posted on April 20, 2012 by visa

We can’t help but look at attractive people. I don’t mean that figuratively- I mean really, we can’t. They catch our eye the moment we see them, just a person in yellow stands out in a sea of black. Think … Continue reading →

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conversations with alfian saat, 1

Posted on December 20, 2011 by visa

(Edited slightly for readability) Hey Alfian! Up so late ah? Ya lah what to do. Nightbird yo. Hahaha. Eh, I’ve been toying with the idea of doing a bunch of casual interviews/conversations with singaporeans, just for the sake of it. To get a … Continue reading →

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what to do after ORD?

Posted on December 11, 2011 by visa

XK: hey visa i’m intrigued by what you mean when you say that University education has limited value do you have any plans to work around that fact? because i’ve wondered about the same thing for some time and even … Continue reading →

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How to win at relationships.

Posted on December 4, 2011 by visa

A friend told me the other day that one of the secrets to a successful relationship is as follows: When having an argument to never bring up anything from the past, say, more than 6 months ago. That makes a … Continue reading →

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On spirituality and vaginas

Posted on November 13, 2011 by visa

I feel like spirituality and sexuality occupy much of the same regions of the mind, and it can be rather easy to confuse the two- if they are separate at all. I have a lot of female friends that I … Continue reading →

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Is it okay for guys to cry?

Posted on October 26, 2011 by visa

The word “cry” is like the word “love” or the word “friend”. What does it mean? Different things to different people. I tear up a little easier than some stoic manly men I know, but it doesn’t affect my functioning … Continue reading →

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homophobic remarks, 2009

Posted on July 21, 2011 by visa

If a friend or relative makes a racist or homophobic remark, do you tend to confront them or let it slide? Are you more likely to confront them if it offends you directly or someone else who seems reluctant to … Continue reading →

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dharma, on goals, motivation and purpose- nov 08

Posted on June 8, 2011 by visa

visaisahero. says: eh i meant the random music they play in the background here and there as filler and on stuff like, TV commercials maybe? dharma s. says: oh ok at NDP i think out of all the music played, … Continue reading →

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Conversation on communication, hive minds, morality, God and the Universe

Posted on May 8, 2011 by visa

  eh i have to digest this theory of communication jizz i’ve been reading from this danish physicist guy and share it with you and get your opinion for some reason super insightful but not world famous “digest” and “jizz” … Continue reading →

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conversations on systems

Posted on March 26, 2011 by visa

on a unrelated note i really am pretty damn exhilarated about my systems thingy lol i kinda get your general gist, but it’s stil a tad confusing for me to understand completely what you’re trying to say i know it … Continue reading →

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